Sunday, August 31, 2025

想赢,要适当地输 To Truly “WIN,” Must Willing to “Lose.”

育儿路上,
确实很想掌控所有, 
想着怎么“赢”,让孩子顺着我的节奏, 
可以有更多的时间做好自己要做的公、私事。 
但,人生路哪有稳赢的。 
亲子关系中,输又何妨… 
当妈咪就要学会适时放低女王的姿态, 
管得又严又紧,她们如何安心自在地探索世界? 
要学会支持她们合理的选择和决定, 相互间给予应有的空间和自由, 
用心地陪伴,由始至终信任支持! 
想赢,真的要适当地输, 
只有舍,方有更大的得。 
没有输的衬托下,赢的意义何在呢? 
Children’s growth requires room to make mistakes; 
these experiences of “losing” are crucial for building confidence and independence. 
Stepping down from the “queen” role and learning to support, 
trust, and be there for them, even when they fail, creates a space where both parent and child can grow. Sometimes to truly “win,” we must be willing to “lose.”
This doesn’t mean giving up but rather fostering a relationship of mutual respect and trust, 
allowing both to flourish in a more relaxed and joyful way. 
This is the true victory in parenting. 

更多【紫言紫语】的🆓🍎电子书👇🏻 More about [Purple] rules 🆓 e-Book👇🏻 
🎀幸运星 Lucky Star 给自己最好的礼物 

🌈全职自爱 Full Time Self Love 活着一定要有自己的颜色 ➡️http://books.apple.com/us/book/id6467560375 

🎀爱自己の紫言紫语💟正向心灵胶原蛋白修心语录 
Positive Affirmations Special Designed for Self Care💜Collagen Notes For Lifelong Soul Wellness ➡️http://books.apple.com/us/book/id1594297538 

🌈紫。慧录 The Jewel of “Violet” 

***PURPLE rules: Blue (Men) + Red (Women) = Purple (We=Equality) 
***紫的定律: 蓝(男人)+红(女人)= 紫(我们=同等) 

Thursday, July 31, 2025

更细致地活好当下Focus on the Present

不急,不赶, 
把每一刻活得踏实,就很好。 
你不是落后, 只是需要慢一点感受现在。 
有苦就有甜, 会笑也会累甚至也会流眼泪, 
这世间不止有两全其美可言, 还有很多种可能… 
活得更洒脱一点, 好好善待自己。 
去体验那些让你觉得开心的东西, 
这些不需要是很贵的东西, 
而是学会打理自己, 
把时间精力花在自己身上, 
更专注细致地活好当下。 
你的心之所向, 会到你到美好的地方。 
当你专注于现在, 未来也会因此更清晰。 
活在当下, 就是对自己最温柔的拥抱。 
心在当下,光就在眼前。 

No rush, no race living each moment fully is already enough. 
You’re not behind you just need to feel the now more slowly. 
Life is bittersweet. 
There will be joy, fatigue, and tears. 
Perfection isn’t the only goal; endless possibilities lie in between. 
Live freely, and treat yourself well. 
Embrace simple joys, care for yourself, and focus on the present. 
Where your heart leads, beauty follows. 
When you focus on now, the future becomes clearer. 
Living in the present is the kindest hug you can give yourself. 

更多【紫言紫语】的🆓🍎电子书👇🏻 More about [Purple] rules 🆓 e-Book👇🏻 
🎀幸运星 Lucky Star 给自己最好的礼物 

🌈全职自爱 Full Time Self Love 活着一定要有自己的颜色 ➡️http://books.apple.com/us/book/id6467560375 

🎀爱自己の紫言紫语💟正向心灵胶原蛋白修心语录 
Positive Affirmations Special Designed for Self Care💜Collagen Notes For Lifelong Soul Wellness ➡️http://books.apple.com/us/book/id1594297538 

🌈紫。慧录 The Jewel of “Violet” 

***PURPLE rules: Blue (Men) + Red (Women) = Purple (We=Equality) 
***紫的定律: 蓝(男人)+红(女人)= 紫(我们=同等)

Wednesday, July 30, 2025

为爱下厨 Cooking with Love


记录“书”于自己的第七本🆓eBooks👇🏻 
让每一餐,都成为生活的温柔仪式。 
食物是最温暖的语言,食物总能温柔地治愈时光。 
每一道菜,都是我爱你的另一种说法。 
在厨房的香气里,找到属于自己的仪式感。 
Make Every Meal Meaningful. 
Food is the warmest language, always tenderly soothing the soul. 
Every dish is another way to say, I Love You. 
May you find your own sense of ritual in the fragrant embrace of the kitchen. 
Cook with Love, Live with Joy. 
You deserve joy, in any form. 

🍽️为爱下厨 Cooking with Love 

紫的食谱 Recipes👇🏻 
🥘Family’s Meal Way 
38 Homemade Kid-Friendly Cookbook 

🍱紫的家庭味 
Something About Purple 

Friday, July 11, 2025

森林美学午饭工作坊 Forest Canteen Lunch Workshop

赴一堂森林美学工作坊,享一頓暖心午饭。说了很久的森林美学暖心午饭工作坊终于成行啦。 

A plant workshop gallery & forest canteen by the the sea👉🏻Forest Canteen Lunch Workshop

https://moonshopgallery.com/product/forest-recipe-iii/