感受没有对错之分,因为妈妈和孩子是完全不同的个体,只有感受到孩子的心态,才能够帮助孩子去接受现实。心理学研究表明,人都有一定程度的“皮肤饥饿感”,温暖的拥抱的作用可以代替表扬、鼓励、安慰、理解等等,所以说,妈妈不要吝啬自己的拥抱,有机会多去抱抱你的孩子。请用双手拉近与孩子的距离,因为接受了孩子的感受,才能够更好地让孩子感受到自己存在的价值。Hugging from the right person especially parents makes children happier and healthier. Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone,” and it's released when we cuddle or bond. It's the reason why being hugged feels so good. Hugs really matter! "Sometimes in life, we just need a hug. No words. No Advice. Just a hug to make you feel better." -Unknown.
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